Getting away from the situation was a breath of fresh air. It was wonderful to see people who loved me just as I was, without picking apart my flaws. I made arrangements for two of our (and now my) good friends to come and see me at my home in a few weeks. Believe it or not, when I got back, I was not even that desperate to pick the difficult dance back up. Almost as though he were worried about, or at least trying to figure out, my sudden silence.I just wanted to keep up with my serenity and I didn’t want to take a step back. Frankly, I was ready to give in and wave my white I tried to busy myself and continue moving forward. I was determined to read books that made me happy, dust off my old classic albums that only I enjoyed and just take some alone time to sort things out. I explained that I’d taken some time back home and was just trying to improve and enjoy myself during what could be a difficult time.Sometimes it is helpful for the couple to agree to “trial separation.” In this post you will learn a way to go about a structured or trial separation.Definition: Terminating cohabitation with a moratorium on the final decision to reunite or divorce – basically a postponement of that decision for a time.
Sure, we’d had our issues, but once upon a time, we were in perfect sync and truly happy, and nothing like the situation on our hands now. So, I panicked and went on a single handed — through threats, through begging, through desperate, (and now embarrassing) behavior.I mentioned the stack of albums I’d dusted off and that I was meeting up with old friends of ours who were coming up next week, and how good it had been to see them.