People meet each other in many different places, in many different ways. Now I live near a downtown university, which means there’s a seemingly endless stream of cute girls walking down the street whenever I step outside. Start thinking about where you can meet the girl who is right for you. So clearly, just being in a situation where you’re NEAR a lot of girls is not going to get you a girlfriend. Here’s how reality actually works: “Being yourself” is not going to get you a girlfriend. Depressed, insecure about how I looked, little sense of fashion, and unable to even look a cute woman in the eyes for more than 1 second.In fact, one of my reasons for writing this article is to bust a lot of the MYTHS that some dating advice or so-called “pick up” coaches are spreading. I even had an apartment a couple blocks away from one of the main nightlife areas in the city. If you live in a more suburban area outside the city, then go to a nearby shopping mall, bookstore or a busy coffee shop. The problem with meeting girls at nightclubs or even going to one of those”single people events” is that there’s a The first step to finding a girlfriend is to put yourself into situations where you can meet many different girls that have a high chance of being compatible with you. Well-meaning people may tell shy guys that you just need to “be yourself” and eventually some girl will fall in love with you. I had to change myself and my behavior before my dating results changed.(Side note: Even though I often meet random girls in the daytime, I’ve accepted that the vast majority of these conversations will never lead to dating or a girlfriend. I had to learn how to become more comfortable with myself and comfortable connecting with other people. A cute face, nice breasts, round hips, soft skin, a certain walk.But it is a great way to improve your social skills. Men are wired to feel attraction to a woman whose body displays signs of fertility, health and youth. Guys can like a girl a lot just because of how she looks… Now, I’m not saying that looks are everything to men, but they’re the primary thing that attracts us to a girl in the first place.
I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.
And the fat stores around the hips are used in the later stages of pregnancy, allowing a woman to survive to have the baby and breastfeed it in our past when food was scarce.
This male desire for youth, health and fertility is also why women have the instinct of adornment.
Almost all women wear makeup to make their lips and eyes look bigger, and almost all guys don’t.
Younger girls also usually wear much more revealing or skintight clothing across most cultures than guys do. Attraction is a feeling that happens automatically in response to some stimulus.
I thought I looked ugly growing up, I was scared to smile because of my slightly crooked front teeth, and I believed my appearance was the reason no girls ever showed interest in me.