It's expected that the couple keep the shadchan up-to-date on how the shidduch is going at regular intervals.
If the shidduch does not work out, then usually the shadchan is contacted and it is he/she that tells the other side that it will not be going ahead.
However, Janet reportedly began to feel “like a prisoner” as she grew isolated from friends and family.
Over time, Al Mana’s desire for “a traditional wife who stuck with Muslim traditions” began to change things.
Usually as the couple see more of each other the shadchan backs away and lets the couple manage it themselves.If the shidduch works out then the couple inform the shadchan of its success.In recent years, a number of shidduchim sites have appeared on the Internet.“He swept in at just the right time,” an insider said of Al Mana.
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