My one girlfriend when I was 16 is now happily married.
There was also a girl i was infatuated with a few years ago – she’s married now as well. But you’re creating a narrative of helplessness that simply .
And despite spending the last 11 years trying to find a girlfriend, I haven’t had a single one, and – to add insult to injury – I’m still a virgin! Of those, I felt the vast majority went well – I do have social skills after all – and I expressed interest in a second date for 17 or 18 of the women…
You dictated the terms of the relationship with the two – or three – women you didn’t want a second date from.
Sometimes the answer is more nuanced than normal or requires cutting through a Gordian knot of related issues.