For men, it’s a huge issue for them, falling into the friend zone…I say, ‘Stop acting like a friend and you won’t fall into the friend zone.’ If you want to flirt with a woman, go flirt with her. Men ask me a question, I tell them what I think or what to do and they say ‘OK, I’ll try that.’ And women…The second part is getting out there and practicing.Sitting on your couch watching "Law & Order" is not going to bring you results with women.What women are really attracted to has nothing to do with appearance. A man who is calm, cool, collected, comfortable and confident will trump an Abercrombie model every time. Not sure who started this rumor, but they must be shot immediately.Women do not sit around with their girlfriends and say "Oh, Marni, I can't wait to meet a lazy, unreliable jerk who treats me poorly and feeds on my insecurities." Women like nice guys, not wimps, pushovers or pleasers; nice guys with a backbone and strong sense of self.Marni Kinrys has been schooling men on how to up their pick-up game for more than a decade using her Wing Girl Method, an online curriculum she developed after spending years helping men pick up women in bars in L. as a professional “Wing Girl.” Now, the Toronto native is shifting gears, offering her straightforward approach to women in her new book, That’s Not How Men Work. A.-based relationship guru tells why so many men are so bad at picking up women, why women let so many good guys pass them by and why the key to dating success might just be to chill the heck out.Flannery Dean: What are men doing wrong when it comes to women?
A guy who is afraid of rejection is not going to bother you. FD: So, basically, everybody should just chill out, relax and be himself or herself?But after that, something interesting happens: A man's face shifts according to how he makes a woman feel.A hot man can become hideous, and an average-looking man can become the sexiest guy in the room.I teach men about how to be strong, confident leaders who really own who they are. Ask for what you want and you have a better chance of getting it.
They’re honest with tact, they have integrity and they’re consistent in the behaviours that they display in their contact with women. That’s the basis of my method for both men and women.There's no "right" line, but there's a right way to say it.